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She researches how people navigate their social worldsincluding how language and mental takl influences interactions. Those with social anxiety struggle because they are in their head and second guess themselves.

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Our fear assumptions fail to take into the social norms of politeness, Schroeder says. Bayard was patient and listened to me vent.

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The first thing Bayard advised me to do was take inventory of people I know and who they know. You get better at asking better questions, and answering with more interesting responses.

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But before I did, I asked Bayard for advice on what to say. Be curious Ask questions.

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Research shows the opposite, however, that people nearly always are willing to engage in a conversation when prompted by someone else. Research actually suggests that people who ask more questions are better liked by their conversation partners than people who ask fewer questions.

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All my friends are married with. She advised me to send that person a message on Instagram asking them to get coffee. Start there.

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I decided to keep our appointment. Most people, I thought, make friends without a strategy or game plan.

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somekne Give someone a compliment It shifts the focus to the other person and should make them feel good, Sandstrom explains. Focusing the attention on the other person in those moments can help us get past those awkward spots, she says.

I told her I almost canceled our session out of pure shame. I did exactly what Bayard advised and messaged her on Instagram.

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I felt ready to hear what Bayard had in store for me and was happy to know that there were only three challenges she wanted me to tackle over the next month to help me make friends. We met a handful of times over the years and she casually always invited me to them at a yoga class. Who are the people you sometimes see at the same parties and share mutual friends, but never have one-on-one conversations?

I wrote each challenge down and devoted at least one week beckme following through on them. A question can either kick off a conversation or keep it going, Sandstrom says.